lack of selfesteem

Have you noticed we are always in the flux?
One cant brush and bath once and stay fresh forever. Life is like this. Yet, corona or no corona. We are leading our life to prove something. And its almost like a meessege written on sand. Waves of time wipe it clean.

 The cyclical nature of human life fails with linier and constant flow of life. And no wonder time gets better than us. 

Even if you excercise like arnold Schwarzenegger, a day will arrive when you will be dying for no apparaent reason at all.

On work front struggle is daily. Unless, you are born genious, You cant fool your boss for entire life. It started from school. We studied but then comes the thing called Exam. Which ruined all the fun of studying. Our purpose to study changed after few years. Getting good grades to show others and proove yourself. 

कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन। the result, the consequenve which is always connected with your actions really kills all the fun.

Your deadlines in office always calls for your short term struggle to proove yourself. 

Thinking of it not most of our life is a struggle to proove ourself? Whats the purpose of interviews, for job or marriage, you need someone's opinion about yourSelf. When somebody says you are good, you feel good.

Why are you always on war. Most people go to job, becase most people do that. They donno anything better. 

only few things are left when we dont do something for proove and survive game. Friendship and love, art and craft, eating and entertainment, Rest and sleep, Gardening and everything we do when we are on holiday or travelling, personal hygine and playing, dance and siging ( in the bathroom), writing poetry (not to show anyone) having that secret crush on a film star, driving a car.. riding a bike... You can add few more but thats it.

Entire system is created like a game. You win or loose. You keep winning daily for years doesnt mean you are worthy. A day will arrive when you will loose and system will spit you out. Unless you have robotic discipline and hard to achieve perfection, you wil be told, "if you cant stand the heat, get out of the kitchen"

We are all target oriented slaves. Who either  loose immediently or seemd to win (for now) only delaying your defeat. But in the process you know, you are not enough and this cant go on forever.

There is a way out. Read book "4 hour work week", Ditch the game, relax and let it be. Live life for you and your family. Cut all the crap out. Time is the most precious commodity.

And know that you are complete. Whole and you are Enough!

Say, "I am Enough!"

TGKablog.

Tushar Gondalia

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